Full Time Assistant Manager at a Clothing Retail Store!

    Ok so it is not the easiest job out there, however it is easier then Assist. Manager at a Fast Food Restaurant, this I know for fact. I have done both, I find myself enjoying my job everyday, it is easy to go in and work there. I am not saying the job itself is easy, it is just easier to go to work and want to work there. Over a Fast Food Restaurant is all I am saying.
    I am on my third week on the job, and all is going well, I am learning very quickly, and liking it each day. The customers are different to deal with the bosses  are as well. The job entails many things that are different but the same. I am catching on pretty well, now that I am set I hope I can continue down this road. I believe I have found where I belong in this working world. Time will only tell in the end.
     I have always said that you have to try before you deny yourself to see if you can do it. Well I have tried and I have liked, therefore I continue on this path that is before me. Everyone it is scary to start something you haven't had experience in, However don't let those fears control you, in the end you will find out that you are capable of doing the things you want, easier then you think.
     Believe in yourself and you will go far, in the end you won't wonder what if, but you will know.
You are your own brick wall, you are your own hero, and above all you are your own person. Don't let others tell you what your not capable of doing, or what you are capable of doing. You won't know unless you try it yourself in the end like me you may surprise yourself.

Love the USA however this is about freedom our four fathers faught for! Where is it going?

    I have a few issues I have to get out there, and though I may be wrong I feel strongly that my point is right. If we don't watch it we aren't going to have our freedom much longer, Lets begin shall we.....

1) Freedom of choice where is that gone to?

        Part of freedom was to make our own choices, however they have been taken that away little by little and people do not realize when they vote against certain things and for certain things they are not only taking others freedom of choice away but their own as well.

         It started with guns laws, where is that lead us to. Only officials and criminals are basically allowed to carry them. People that make one little mistake that is hardly enough to have their gun rights taken way have had it done, EXAMPLE; first account domestic violence. You can not carry a weapon or gun. Nor can you get a job that requires you to carry a gun because of a domestic violence charge on you, Now wait a minute I myself can carry a gun and I myself have no such charge on me, though this doesn't imply me it does effect me.... I don't like that, it should be consider on how high the charge is, was the person violent with a weapon, if not this should not imply to them etc:

       Our right to choose to smoke or not, that is getting out of hand to, I am indeed a smoker so this does effect me, we should have the right to smoke. It has gotten to the point that business's will not even hire smokers, and if they should you are not allowed to smoke near, around or on the premises of such business. Other business's own their building but do not have a choice anymore if they want their business to be smoking or non smoking..... WRONG if you own your business it should be your CHOICE to have it smoking or non smoking, that should not have been allowed to be passed in some if at all any states. Listen up people if you take others choices away what makes you think they will not take your away to.... alcohol will be targeted next believe it or not it will eventually, or other enjoyable social habits will. How much more are we going to take. Oh don't worry the buck doesn't stop here keep reading on.

     Our right to carry our AMERICAN flag where ever we want to,...... ummm this should be  a given but apparently there are some places/people out there that feel that carring or showing  the USA flag can offend someone... ummm well if it does let me tell you this...I am not racist by any means, however if you come to this country respect our rights, our FREEDOM, Our FLAG! You came here....
                                                               

Patriotic “Flag Boy” gets Parade — & Apology!

                                                       

                                                              HELLO THE TIME TO WAKE UP WOULD BE NOW PEOPLE!!!!!

                                             

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OBAMACARE REQUIRES RFID CHIP IMPLANTED FOR PATIENTS BY MARCH 2013--------------------------------------------------------------------------                  More and more each day we lose our rights by choices you all make when voting, however its not everyone's choice.... by taken some body elses choices away your only slowly taking your own away to... wake up people, we are not in a freedom country anymore... We can not choose to watch what we want to watch when we want to watch it. We can not just go anywhere anymore that we want to. Foreigners can get in this country easier still and make it big here is America then our own Americans can! Don't get me wrong I do not mind this ... however I do mind when it is harder for our own American people to gain any thing in their own country, but a stranger from somewhere else can move right in and prosper quickly with help from our government and our tax dollars.... ? Can anyone else see there is a problem there...           

              There is so much more to be said there is so much more proof out there that our freedom is being slowly taken away from us, Our FOUR FATHER'S and even our men and women of today fought and fight  to give us freedom, yet everyday we sadly let it slip away...... with out even a worry, care, or another thought.. so I say to you all the next time you go vote for something or against something that may or may not effect you, why don't you stop and think.... our we ok taking other peoples CHOICES away from them just because we don't or do like something... If you don't like smokers ok, fine, no body makes you hang around them, you don't like to go to a smokey restaurant or place then find another place to go or hey here is a clue,,,, go make your own place open it up and have the CHOICE TO MAKE IT NON SMOKING!                 

              This is not just about the Non smoking state I live in, I have been against that law since when I fist heard about it, However What I am upset about is how little people care about their rights.. We can not even have GOD in our schools anymore however other children because of their reg-lion can have their CHOICE to study their own religious beliefs at their will in our schools. How is that right... there is so much that we people WE THE PEOPLE are allowing ourselves to be blind to...                                   

IT'S TIME TO GET A CLUE!

Greatest Books Ever To Read!

                                The greatest books EVER:

                      first being my most favorite then on 

                                               down,

 
The Earth Children Series — Jean M Auel
Books in order:
             1) The Clan Of The Cave Bear  2) The Valley Of Horses
       3) The Mammoth Hunters
   4) The Plains Of Passage
  5) The Shelter Of Stone
    6) Land Of Painted Caves

The Twilight Sage — Stephine Meyers
Books in order:
  1) Twilight
      2) New Moon3) Eclipse
              4) Breaking Dawn

The House Of Night Series — P.C.Cast + Kristen Cast
Books in order:
1) Marked
  2) Betrayed
3) Chosen
   4) Untamed
 5) Hunted
   6) Tempted
7) Burned
  8) Awaken
   9) Destined
10) Hidden — not out yet!
 Plus this great series of small about the character books like but not limited to
1) Dragons Oath
  2) Lenobia’s Vow
plus more:

The Hunger Games Series — Suzanne Collins
Books in order:
           1) The Hunger Games
  2) Catching Fire3) MockingJay

And of course I can not forget but forgot to put in second place

The Little House on the prairie series from — Laura Ingalls Wilder

Buying a house! Be ready for the stress with in the fun of it!

    Buying a house can be fun, but very stressful. Between discussing business with your banker (loan officer), realtor, and maybe even getting to meet the owners of the house that is for sale its a ball game anyone can win and lose at.
     There are many options, many choices, and above all many houses to seek out and then choose the best that fits you and your family. It is a big step a commitment you should be ready to make before you jump into it.
     Make sure you go in with all the facts and how to's before you just run out and look at your homes, this will make things so much easier, Consult your banker and your realtor ask questions even if you think they are stupid or awkward. It's their job to inform you on what to do and how to do it correctly.  Save yourself lots of stress and headaches by educating yourself about home buying.
     Home buying is fun, however make sure your not going into it for wrong reasons, that you are indeed ready for the payments. Good ideas to take with you before you close on a house is ask about closing cost, earnest money, See if you can get the closing cost paid for by the sellers, Ask how much on average is the earnest money if any is needed. make sure you know what your banker and your plans as well as your realtors plans are. Be honest, firm and above all serious about your requests,needs and must haves in your home.... Get something you will love, this will be your home for the rest of your life.
     Do research on the homes you are thinking about buying, do not rush it, there is nothing like rushing into a home YOU think you like, only to find out a few months maybe a couple years later your not as happy as you thought you would be... with your home..Therefore be sure to find the right home for you, make sure you find a realtor that works for you and cares about your needs, one that tells you the truth about homes rather then sugar coats them to make a sell.
    DON'T sign anything with a realtor until you know that the realtor is one you will like and be able to build a business relationship with. If your not comfortable with the realtor... it's ok to move on from them... Just don't sign any realtor to being your agent until you are sure he/she is right for you. Your realtor is as important as the house you will be buying....ABOVE all do not look at any house without your own realtor.... don't be fooled into dealing with the sellers realtor find your own realtor that doesn't have anything to do with the sellers or the home you are interested in. Unless the sellers realtor is your own realtor, the one you already have built a trusting relationship with.
      Again I add take your time, breathe, never make an offer without consulting banker and your realtor first and don't make offers in front of sellers or their realtors. Also go into every house as if your really not interested in it put your poker face on and leave it there... Oh and leave the excitement at home. Good luck house hunting... have fun!

How to get old debts off your Credit Report!

     I am writing this to make it more knowledgeable to those who have no clue about their Credit Reports. Did you know that in many states there is a limit to how long a debt can be placed on your report? Well there is. I live in a state that says the debts can only be on your report for 6 years, after that they need to be removed. However many companies that hold your debt, won't remove them..... In fact they rather not as long as they are on there then your credit report will show the results and therefore continue to give you bad credit. These companies hope that this will help collect the debt, for your credit will be negative and you will have a hard time buying or using your credit to better yourselves.
      I have done research up on research about this, and it has helped me. I want to share this with everyone in hopes to get these companies to rethink what they are doing. Companies know that theses laws are out there, they also know they have to abide by the law... however if no one asks then how will anyone who counts know to do anything about it, if they don't remove it. On another note, if the debtors do not know about the laws or so called rules, and just let it happen the companies can get away with it more and more. So in a way I am doing a public awareness, and notice to help you help yourself.
      With out further a do, I will tell you first, get a copy of your Credit Report, (not score) then look to see what is on this credit report, if the debt is questionable then you need to dispute it first and foremost. You can do this several ways one while looking at your report there usually is a dispute button near or next to the debt, depending on what internet company you are searching the report through, if not there should be directions on the website to tell you how to do so. Then print out a copy of your report, You can go to these Credit Report online sites, some of them are free and some of them charge a little fee. (Make sure you get a copy of your report from all 3 bureaus AKA -TransUnion, Experian, Equifax)

Free Credit Reports sites:

True Credit

Free Credit Report
Annual Credit Report

      There are many free credit report sites out there and your free to look at them with out it hurting your report or score. Once you have printed out your report, and have disputed some of your reporting debts if they are indeed worthy of disputing. Do not easily think you are done after disputing the few you have, now here is the thing just because you disput it on the website doesn't mean they will listen, now what you need to do is this.

       Look at all the dates when the debt had been placed on your credit report, if the dates are longer then at least six years old chances are they are to old to be able to be validated... you need to write the collection companies to validate the debt, do not admit you owe the debt but also do not, not admit  you owe the debt if that makes sense. Chances are the debt is so old that they will not be able to validate the debt and will have to remove it. However in this off chance that they can not validate it, then you have to wait 30 days after asking them to validate it and then send them a request to remove the debt from your credit report. Also even if they validate it, there is also a chance it can be a zombie debt... yes I said it, a zombie debt and in this case you may be able to get it removed still..., so here is how to do the validation and the zombie debt letters and further help on the Credit Report clearing. This resource I found and is very helpful. It is where I got my info and I want to share it with everyone...

Credit Report Help:

Statute of limitations on debts:
Statute of limitations on debts

Debt Validation:
Debt Validation

Sample Letter of a Zombie Debt:
Sample Letter

Now that I have supplied some information here for you I hope more and more people out there will be more knowledgeable about their credit. If you know someone that needs help lead them this way, or to the sites I have shared with you... More accurate info is on the sites I have supplied, I hope I have helped someone out there in any event!
Thank you!

Pizza Cake, ok well with small changes,,,,, HA HA!

    Anyway went to make a pizza cake, for my brothers b day cake. However he likes chocolate cake, so I decided, I would make a burnt looking pizza by making it with the chocolate cake mix.. then For the sauce of the pizza instead of making it easier on my self and buying red icing, I just decided to get white frosting and red food dye..... well it turned pink as I assumed but hoped it wouldn't.....(lesson learned just buy the red frosting next time.... ).

   All in all the cake turned out ok, it tasted great.... what did I put on it you ask that is easy peasy!
I used fruit roll ups for the peperoni, whoppers for the sausage, gummy worms for the green and red peppers and of course got white chocolate bakers bars for the cheese then shredded them like the cheese. It taste great, I got the idea from my step son...... he made them once and placed them on face book to share with everyone, at that moment I decided that was going to be my brothers b day cake as he LOVES him some pizza almost on the daily, why not have a pizza cake lol.

   Great fun ideas with a little mix never hurt anyone at all.. So to get some ideas look around ya they are all over and so easy to learn as the internet is full of ideas, if you have any you would like to share please comment I always love to bake and learn new recipes and improvements as well...

Romance, Fever, sharing and caring.... Slowly reveal the real in each other!

    Sometimes in our lives, your two hearts meet as one, You feel the need to explain and let each other know just how much you mean to each other, Asking about your lovers past is not wrong, it shows interest, with the right kind of trust and interest, they will tell you, You must not show jealousy for it is a life before you, what is in their life now is what counts, and hearing their past helps you to trust each other more as well as learn about the others wrongs that can be prevented in yours now, My husband and I have share these thoughts feelings once in a great while, just out of the blue, it is nice to learn something new about your partner, so never rush their past up on you, share it every once in a great while so your interest in each other feels a new once again! There is always something you will be surprised to learn about your partner if you keep it somethings untold for a later time.... Nothing ever says you have to share everything right away! But Sharing can bring you closer, if its given at the right time.
      In the meantime enjoy each other, show not tell each other how you feel, learn about your partner not only emotionally, but mentally and sexually as well. There is so much more to a person then what you seen on the outside. You must search with in ones self before you can expect your partner to reach out and share with you to, explore each other in every way, leave no stone unturned. However do it respectfully and both in agreement. Never push maybe you need to open the door and give a little information, before they will open up to you, if they do not open up right away that is ok, give it time. Relations are meant to be built up over time not in a day or night... Take it slow.

Pam Tillis Let that Pony Run lyrics Great song!

Mary was married with children,
had the perfect suburban life,
'til her husband came clean with the help of Jim Beam
and confessed all his sins one night.
Said he'd fallen in love with a barmaid,
said she made him feel reckless and young.
And when he got through, what else could she do?
She just let that pony run.

(chorus)
'Cause you do what you gotta do,
and you know what you know.
You hang on till you can't hang on,
then you learn to let go.
You get what you want sometimes,
but when it's all said and done,
you do what you gotta do
then you let that pony run.

Now Mary moved to West Virginia,
after the shock wore off.
She got a divorce and a chestnut horse
and a barn with an old hayloft.
Sometimes she rides down by the river,
said it makes her feel reckless and young.
She just closes her eyes, and she holds on tight,
and she lets that pony run.

Youngest first interview

So here we sit waiting for youngest to go into her first interview ever. A little scared, nervous and a little bit silly. Shell be just fine, mama is just being supportive and hoping she gets the job. Good luck baby girl !

Ghost of Grandpa 1999

Nephew Jason, visited by what I believe to be our Grandpa Hatch in 98 -99. To welcome Baby Jason into the family..This picture has been annualized by professionals and they all agree it has not been altered in anyway. I also know it hasn't been altered in any way because I was the one who took the picture myself, This ghost like figure could not be seen with the naked eye, only after developing the film did I notice this,

Worked and now errands blaaahhhh

Worked at 5 am this morning now off to pay bills sooo tired wonder if ill get a nap in today? Most likely i will not!

Sitting here eating ice cream with angel baby!

Nothing much happening tonight just chilling with my angel cake eating ice cream .......

Cure Kids Cancer! A way I would like to help and a way you could to.

    Yes just as the title says, I would like to help in every possible way, So I came up with a plan.... Yes it is my Birthday today, but today I am not thinking of myself, I am thinking of the children, teens, young adults and adults going through treatments and life with Cancer.  My grandma died of Cancer as so many have in the past, and yet today we see many out their still suffering.
     I may not have much money, and my problems are considerably small compared to those who deal with cancer everyday of their life. Many have donated money to help the cause, and that I am grateful for. I also remember that sometimes a gift to a child or young adult can be just as helpful, So on my Birthday I have decided that I am going to start making blankets, and pillows handmade with fabric.
The materials are not as expensive as one would think, but for one person to make as many as I intend to make it can be a big expense. Our Kids castle here in Sioux falls houses many children with Cancer, and sometimes they don't see exactly what others donate to them in the sense of money, Some to young to even know where all the money to help them come from or that anyone at all is helping them. This is where the gifts of the blankets and pillows come in. They will remember and understand a gift such as this to comfort them in their greatest time of need.
    I want to be able to be close to those children, I want them to know people out their may not know them but do care enough to show them they are thinking and loving them as well as praying for them.
I am going to start making these blankets and pillows with in the week, It cost about $15.00 dollars for enough material to make a pillow or blanket for one person. I can do this alone, however it will be a very slow and long process, with out help with funds or materials, I am not asking anyone who doesn't want to help for anything, and those who do feel they would like to help in this project may do so. By either sending materials to me, or donating money to my blog here. there is a donate button to the right of this page. I am not asking for $15.00 per person, I am only asking for what you can and feel comfortable in sending to help with this project, all money/materials collected will be funding the project fully 100%. If you would like to send materials please contact me and I will let you know where you can send them.
    If you would like to make blankets and pillows, feel free to contact me to get the information you will need to send your gift to them yourself. I will also be posting pictures of the gifts that I make that you are helping with. There is no greater good that one can do then to give to a child, What I will get out of this is the greatest satisfaction in the world, to see the child have a smile, and love the gifts I bring them.... and what greater way to help my purpose then to give materials at the least....
   I am going to be looking for children's patterns, Toy Story fabric, Princess fabric, Sports Fabric etc: Flowers, animal print, soft and cuddle fabric. I usually buy a yard and a half of to different fabrics, to sew together for the blanket. I then buy a yard of matching fabric to one of the two fabrics from the blanket  to make the pillow.... I usually make a body pillow or a normal sized pillow for a bed. So these are just a few ideas for those of you who would like to help.

Remember if you don't want to donate to this project, start a project yourself and give the gift of love to a child or someone in need, the thought alone will mean the world to them, and they will remember it for a life time. Check your local Hospitals and other areas to see what you can do to help to.
    
THIS IS STRICTLY FOR DONATIONS TOWARDS CHILDREN'S CANCER! ANY HELP IS GREATLY NEEDED AND APPRECIATED.

Haven't written in a while but that is because a lot has happened since the last time.

    Little man Angel got sick with RSV well I got it in return and was out for at least a month or so with it myself, I am still healing from it, though I am better from the RSV itself, I have sinus and allergies that reacted as well right after. That alone is enough to put you down again.
    I just recently also took my eldest daughter to get her wisdom teeth taken out, actually this morning to be completely accurate with the day. She is doing fine, and the surgery went very well. She is on her way to mending quickly. Before all that went on though and after the I got the RSV virus, my youngest got it to, so I had to take care of her to. What a mess it was the last two months.
    On a lighter note, I can not complain to much at all about the weather here, it was and is still very awesome... I am looking for spring, and summer to get here, I am pretty sure we are already well on your way to both lol.
    Hope to write again with updates on everything, yes still working out the kinks on my website, it is up, it just needs the minor and more tougher details that will take me the longest to get done... Thanks once again for reading.... and till next time.

RSV FLU whatever it is was, I am glad I am through it to!

   My nephew was sick a few weeks ago, I did not know at the time that he had RSV, I gave him his usual kiss good night when I left his house... the next day he goes into the hospital with RSV.

      I did not get sick right away, in fact it took a couple of days, I started to feel it, and knew I caught it. Not a nice thing to get btw, but it was my nephew what could I do.. I still love him.... I went to visit him as much as I could when he was in the hospital, I ll tell you I was not feeling very well at all. By that weekend I was in bed not getting out of it at all. My children and husband were very helpful and for  the most part quiet for me. They let me sleep, and get the rest I needed. Thank you family!
     Angel cake buttermilk biscuit got better and was released that Friday,he spent a week in the hospital. Once he was out I should of went in lol. But I did not. I laid in bed and refused to go near him as I did not want to give it to him back or give something worse to him. He grew stronger as I grew weaker, but he was healthy again and that is what mattered most.

      While I was still on the mend come Monday, I was taking my children to get their stuff done including but not limited to getting my youngest daughters hair done, she was so happy.... she paid for it herself, with the money she worked for from her Uncles business.

     So I was feeling much better, and felt I was good to go, thought to take a nice picture of both my daughters. So proud of them... they were being so good, and helpful love them so much. Here they are being good and funny and for once Sisterly!

     Then after a couple more days, I started feeling like I had a sinus infection, which I knew also comes with the Flu or RSV.. when your body is at the lowest something always come up after.... and well I caught a bacterial infection there after, it floored me as well. I took a few antibiotics that I had from the last one, but because they were old they helped but not as much as they could if they were fresher.. So off to acute care I went and saw the Doctor, they updated my meds, and sent me on my way...  Now 3 weeks later, after the Flu/RSV I had, and fighting this Infection now, I am on my way to fully mending.. Thank the heavens for the help they gave my nephew in getting better, and my youngest who caught some infection as well (she got better quicker and through it faster),and of course the help they provided me with,.
     Noticed hubby came down with something to, hope he will get better fast to without to much fuss I ask for the heavens to help him through it to. All in all those that are sick I pray you get better quickly, Those who are well I pray you stay that way, Those that have been sick I pray you remain sick free for the rest of the year. God Bless and remember be nice to one another, love not war, selfless not selfish... These are things that help the world become a little nicer and less hateful and stressful.

The Mothers Song — Jean Auel The Sheltor Of Stone

                         

The Mother's Song!
Out of the darkness, the chaos of time,  The whirlwind gave birth to the Mother sublime, She woke to Herself knowing life had great worth, The dark empty void grieved the Great Mother Earth.
From the dust of Her birth She created the other, A pale shining friend, a companion, a brother. They grew up together, learned to love and to care, And when She was ready, they decided to pair.   Around Her he'd hover. Her pale shining lover.
She was happy at first with Her one counterpart. Then the Mother grew restless, unsure in Her heart. She loved Her fair Friend, Her dear complement, But something was missing, Her love was unspent.
She was the Mother. She needed another.
She dared the great void, The chaos, the dark, To find the cold home of the life-giving spark. The whirlwind was fearsome, the darkness complete. Chaos was freezing, and reached out for Her heart.
The Mother was brave. The danger was grave.
She drew from cold chaos the creative source, Then conceiving within, she fled with life-force. She grew with the life that She carried inside. And gave of Herself with love and with pride.
The Mother was bearing. Her life She was sharing.
The dark empty void and the vast barren Earth, With anticipation, awaited the birth. Life drank from Her blood, it breather from Her bones. It split Her skin open and sundered Her stones.
The Mother was giving. Another was living.
Her gushing birth waters filled rivers and seas, And flooded the land, giving rise to the trees. From each precious drop new grass and leaves grew, And lush verdant plants made all the Earth new.
Her waters were flowing, New green was growing.
In violent labor spewing fire and strife, She struggled in pain to give birth to new life. Her dried clotted blood turned to red-ochred soil, But the radiant child made it all worth the toil.
The Mother's great joy. A bright shining boy.
Mountains rose up spouting flames from their crests, She nurtured Her son from Her mountainous breasts. He suckled so hard, the sparks flew high, The Mother's hot milk laid a path through the sky.
His life had begun. She nourished Her son.
He laughed and he played, and he grew big and bright. He lit up the darkness, the Mother's delight. She lavished Her love, he grew bright and strong, But soon he matured, not a child for long.
Her son was near grown, His mind was his own.
She took from the source for the life She'd begun. Now the cold empty void was enticing Her son. The Mother gave love,But the youth longed for more, For knowledge, excitement, to travel,explore.   Chaos was Her foe. But her son yearned to go.




This is just  a little sample of the mothers song that can be found in the book by Jean M. Auel. My all time favorite writer, there really has never been another to surpass her from my favorite, The book that this is from is called the Shelter of Stone, this is her 5th book in the series of 6. Many will know her work, and those many will appericate as I do her skill in bringing these characters to life as she did. I am grateful to be able to read all of them thus far. I can not wait to either read more, or watch the movies she has said she will create after she is completely done writing these books in her series....
To read more of the Mothers Song you can visit a local book store or go online and look up the books in this order. It is best to read from the beginning to the end to be able to fully understand the life of Ayla. Below are some links and the titles to each book by Jean M Auel. 1. The Clan of the Cave Bear 2. Valley of the horses             3. The Mammoth Hunters        4. The plains of Passage            5. The Shelter of Stone               6. The Land of Painted Caves     
Link to her website             http://www.jeanauel.com/         Fan site                http://ecfans.com/        Buy Her books here            http://www.amazon.com/Jean-M.-Auel/e/B000APVANG   

Angel Cake in the hospital, RSV you are so bad!

  Praying for my nephew to get better, was admitted to the hospital yesterday for the RSV bug. I hate it when the children are sick at anytime, however when it is something like this I hate it even more. Hoping now that he is in the hospital he will heal more quickly and get better. I already miss him, and I have seen him tonight but that does not do my worry any good.
   As his Auntie, I feel that I am close to him as he needs those around him to lift his spirits up. As he is in the hospital most of his living life so far. The months out of the hospital have been great but he does get sick more often then most kids. I only hope this changes as he gets older, If you have ever read my earlier postings about my nephew here on my blog you would know why and what I am talking about.
   My nephew wasn't even suppose to live past 3 weeks to a year, with his left front part of his brain dead, and thought to be blind and not able to hear or walk, and talk. With a shunt in his head to release the water in his brain, he has proved all of them wrong thus far.. I only truly hope he is strong as he seems to be.... but how much more can a little 2 year old take. He only knows pain most the time so to him it is normal. The days with out pain he welcomes and his happy none the less. Never know when he is hurting as he is just a great kid that doesn't know how to let you know. He has mastered more with pain in his two years of life then most in their entire life span. What a little brave man we have in our lives and we thank God for him every day,,,, at least I do. He can hear, speak, see, and think and is so very smart, no one knows there is anything wrong with him unless we tell them ourselves.... God has made a miracle through him, thus faith will always be known in my heart mind and soul that God does exist.

Hubby home for the weekend dinner with my brothers family!

   All kinds of things are happening how wonderful is that. Spent a wonderful weekend with the husbands and kids, movies and games, dinner to. Could not ask for more, all healthy and doing well. So been real busy this whole week kind of feel like I need a long break and a me time kind of day! Got to take puppy's in tomorrow for their shots and hope that they do well.
   Other then that nothing much to tell that is why I haven't written anything much lately. Still trying to transfer files from my old PC to my new I MAC, takes time considering the husband or kids are on the PC at most times, hoping to be able to transfer tomorrow as well with a day off just for me. Can not sleep the day away like I usually like to do HA! but never the less it will be busy tomorrow just like always it is. Guess once the kids get older it gets easier however you become taxi driver more an more.
   Taxi Driving isn't so bad when it is for your children, but it gets old quickly, I would rather take them myself anyway. There will be plenty of me time when they have moved out and on with their own lives. Then they will be calling me to taxi the grand-kids around ha ha ha ! Got to love them all kids, grand-kids, nephews and nieces, they are gifts not to be taken for granted.God blessed them all!

Husbands b day yesterday, New iMac for me today!

   So I am happy to tell you hubbies b day went off with a blast he got my computer, new game, went out to eat, and will be getting a new graphics card for the computer he got. It is basically new only a couple years old.
    Today I got my new mica, it was the deal we made long ago if I get my mac he gets my computer I couldn't resist the deal so I got my mac today he got my computer a couple of days ago. It all went well for both of us. He is a great husband and I would not trade  him for the world. Just awesome at everything and more.

Is he right for you, how can you tell if he is the one? Here is a few tips to find out.

   Frist and for most when you invite him over does he want to spend it watching a movie, wants to talk, or just hang out with you... or rather still does he want to play x-box......? Well, the answer is simple, if he is playing xbox, or even computer games, etc: you are looking at your new future, a forever case of playing xbox, is his way of thinking is that if I am home, or around you I am spending time with you.... therefore no reason to complain... Is this the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with?
   If he comes over and does different things with you, like watch a movie one night, play board/card games the next time, hangs out with you another time, then xbox on another night then you can fairly say he likes the games, but he also makes a point in trying to spend equal time with me. Is this the type a guy you want to be with for the rest of your life?
   If he takes you out on dates and spends time with you  at home or out, then you have a pretty decent guy,even if he plays video games on whatever system. Is this the type a guy you want to spend the rest of your life with?
    I figure my man is the last option here, and I am willing to spend my life with him. Marriage doesn't mean you have to spend every momenet together doing something together. The relationship will quickly go down hill fairly quickly. However my man works a lot and deserves hours of play which is fine with me, he also makes sure that he spends time with family and spends time doing other things. He does not always play games but it is a big part of his life, but I am a bigger part of that and he makes sure I know that.  This is the type of guy I want to spend the rest of my life with.
     SO WHICH GUY DO YOU HAVE OR WHICH GUY DO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH?