So Finally it is here, I have done it, my first book and it certainly will not be my last book either I am working really hard on my second book. I would like you all to go take a look at my website, you can order the book there and everything.
Please let me know what you think in the comments and rating if you already have bought the book and read it. Thank you all so very much for your support.


Welcome To My Haunted Life!

Welcome To My Haunted Life !

Those whom bought my book, please do not forget to rate, and leave your comments on my web page please.
http://carolyntracy.businesscatalyst.com/shop.html\

yes I finally got my webpage up, however it only looks good on computer, as I have not been able to sit down long enough to get the mobile device sites up yet, will keep you informed thank you to everyone for your patience.

Welcome To My Haunted Life On Sale Starting 6/6/2016

Ok Guys I have a great sale going on for my book, for one week you can get it at 4.99. Please share and let others know if they want it this is the time to purchase it. It starts 6/6/2016 until next Monday 6/13/2016.
Here are  those links again.
Amazon:

ITunes:

Customer Reviews

Awesome Book ★★★★★

by Tracy4uto - May 14, 2016

It was great to read and to look through the eyes of the reader, with the illustrations it really helped.

Amazed and Dazed! ★★★★★

by NightOwlsLive - May 14, 2016

Incredible, I bought the book, and it took me some time to read it as I worked but once I had a couple days off, as I like to really get into my books. I got a chance to read it. I am just at awe really that a little girl growing up had experienced so much in her life then growing into adult hood amazes me how she handled it. I highly believe life after death and in ghost, as well as heaven and hell, demons and other dimensions as crazy as this sounds, I do believe these things to, and have had my own experiences, I am glad I was able to read this as it helped me understand, and most certainly know I am not alone. Can not wait to read more from this author, The pictures were a real treat to, got to really get to know the person behind the book.

Liked this book ★★★★★

by Kittttyyykaaattt - May 3, 2016

It was very interesting, left me a little freaked out after reading it slept with the lights on!

Great Read ★★★★★

by Darth Stupid - May 3, 2016

I have not read a book as interesting as this one in a long time. Being a true story it would be a very scary and horrific experience for someone growing up dealing with that stuff. Can not wait for this Author to write more books.

Welcome To My Haunted Life

My book was released May 1, 2016
I can not wait for my blog readers to read my book, one of many to come.
Please check it out here thanks.
Links below
For Kindle and other devices:
Amazon
For Apple Devices:
Itunes Store

My Haunted Life — Releasing on Ibooks In May!

Yes, I have been writing or rather I wrote a book, it is now on ibooks and can be per-ordered it releases on the 1st of May.
As I sit here writing this I am still in shock that I actually did it. It took me a few months to write it as it should. I could not be more happier as I am right now.
I am excited and full of joy at the moment.
I wanted to share the link here as well so that my readers here can per-order if they would like.
Although as of right now, it is only available in digital format, and exclusively on iBooks and iTunes store I am looking to release through other digital media such as but not limited to
Kindle, Nook etc: This however will take a little more time as I need to submit it there as well.
Again thank you everyone and here is that link.
My Haunted Life

Once again I find my self Behind in my blog!

If I have anyone out there, still reading my blog, I know I had several readers before.
However I can not say that I blame you if you have left me lol. Time moves quickly when you
are a full time working Manager and mother, as well as running my owner business on the side in your spare time.
All in all however that is all besides the point. I feel and update is required, I am currently on Vacation and
well thus far I am enjoying it.
My husband and I took a vacation together, yes we plan on leaving to go some where,
However we both agreed our money would be better spent putting it into our home on things that we have only
dreamed about, Up until now. We have started to lay rock in our back yard, in the garden of Snakes. Yes I said it,
I have a whole back yard of Gardner Snakes I began calling the back yard "REPTILE GARDENS" If anyone knows
about REPTILE GARDENS, it is a little zoo just for Reptiles. (link:http://www.reptilegardens.com/)
Located in the heart of the Black Hills in Rapid City SD. Wonderful place if I do say so myself.
In any event, I thought all my snakes moved on as there was so many I could not help but run them over
with the mower by ACCIDENT, And hadn't seen any for a few weeks. Yesterday though I cam across a baby
and well I was a little happy to know at least one was left behind. To carry on Big Daddy's job. Big Daddy
I have not seen for a few weeks but he has been in my yard every year we have been here since 2012. However just
a week or two ago he seemed to move on as all his family had been mowed. I had like 6-7 Huge Snakes and I sadly killed
about 4-5 of those huge ones with the mower as I was mowing. I mow once to twice a week mind you. Big Daddy is the father of most
if not all those huge snakes in my yard. He has to be to have so many out there and he lives under my cement side walk near
the Garage. Mama Snake I believe is one of the many I mowed over. Maybe he went in search for a new mama.
Anyway back to my landscaping.
My husband and I got a estimate on how much it would cost to have someone come into our home and fix up the Garden area by leveling it out
and then placing Rock, The guy said 300 dollars, not bad considering. However we have a whole house we would rather put that money into replacing gutters
and nicks that the Hell storm put in some of our siding and windows panes last year. So we went to Home Depo, and bought a couple of bags of limestone rock, we leveled and cleaned
out that garden by ourselves, and placed the two bags. It became quick knowledge it would take a lot of those bags at $3.99 a bag to fill that garden area up (21 bags cost about 150.00).
So the person that I am, I saved some money and contacted a business and went right to the source for the rock. Concrete Materials, Hubby and I went and
bought a quarter ton of Lime stone rock from them got the pick up loaded with the rock went home and started shoveling it into the Garden. We still have to go get more rock,
A quarter ton of rock only cost us 22.95, Considering the money we saved it was a great decision going to get more today and finish off the 2 feet we have left to fill, However
we are buying still another quarter ton, so that we can lay the rock into the area where my air conditioner is so that it will be nice again to.
I appreciate the fact the hubby and I can take a vacation and work together to put into our home a forever little peace of heaven we will always enjoy.. Knowing we did it
together and by ourselves just brings that much more pride we have in our home and ourselves. Yes My husband is not much of a DIY guy, but I am. Though he may roll his eyes at
me in the beginning of our forever adventure of making our home a beautiful little piece of heaven right here in our home, he looks at me with his grin at the end and says,
"We worked hard today Mommins," and I can see a twinkle of pride and enjoyment in his eyes. Knowing he did it, and actually enjoyed it. Now I will tell you
this rock garden was his project, he wanted to do, he even says "You just want to do my project and take the credit."I can not help but laugh with him, because he thinks these things
but when it comes to actually doing it, it is always like I am pulling and pushing him to do it, but when he gets his start in the project there is no turning back. He gets it, he
does it, and enjoys it. Then he walks around like he's the man all week that is fine, I love that about him.
He tells me I am his rock, I push him to do the things he wants to do, where people always say I am going to, and never gets to it. I am the one solid in his life, that will actually push him
to make his dreams come true. At the end of the day, he knows I have his back. But at the end of the day, I always ask myself, doesn't he understand that he is my solid, my reason to want to be
better, do better, love better and to help him achieve what he wants in his life. I am a go getter if you tell me you want something done, or just want something, He and the children are my soul reason that I push for it. Make sure that it happens, because at the end of the day, if you just talk about it, you will never get it done. A great man always told me " Don't push off tomorrow what you can do today." (RIP — Wayne T.) He was right its in the mind set, if you want it done it'll get done, But if all you want to do is talk then it never will be.

I ll post pictures once all is done, of our great work that we have done. Now realize it is not professionally done, but in my eyes it is just as beautiful as if it were. I also want to mention
that we have so much more we want to do in that yard, however I told myself and Husband that it need not all be done at once, but as time goes by as we get older this home, we will enjoy more as we do more together.

Wow just let me tell you !

No I did not get a chance to write much in 2014, What a busy, and horrible year that was, glad it's over.
However here we are barely starting year 2015 and I am going to make it great, I can not wait. I hope all of you have a great year
this year as I am planning to have, I am not allowing anything to get me down.I ll hold my head high and walk into it, rather then
bowing down and letting it get to me this year. I don't want to go into to much detail on what my year was like last year. So I will not
write about it at all, it is what it is.
This year I plan on going back to school, and attending classes to better my career and excel in it. I want for so much as for personal
upgrade rather then anything else. The mind is a waste if you don't use it so why not learn something often and exciting that will make you
feel great about yourself. Thus always working on yourself is the best form of therapy out there. You can not help or control what others,
say, do to you, but you can control how you react to it. By not letting get to you, work on yourself, not for anyone or anything else but for you.
Thus you will uncontrollable, and above all you will feel great.
I have been working hard on a book that I am writing, and hope to release soon on I—book and other sites, I only hope the readers will enjoy it as much as I
have enjoyed writing it. I am a very creative person, and love to write, and read anything informative, and even imaginative, it doesn't have to be non fiction,
I love fiction as much as I love non fiction, the mind is a great place to create creative works of art you never know what you can do until you do it, or at
the very least try to do it, You may be surprised at just want you can do or learn to do.So get up give it a go and see what comes of it. You ll know once you
find it that it is what you were meant to do..... FOR YOUR SELF!

Long Time No See,

I have started a new career path, and I do believe I like it. I am no more an Assistant Manager but a Manager, I work hard and I believe we are rewarded eventually not always at the job we are currently at, but somewhere else that they may need us to be at.
I am thankful for all those who I have had the honor to work with in the past those who have taught me many of things in this life long journey. I want to acknowledge those that are around me even if you are not aware of the help or lesson you have taught me, Know that I do carry it with me.

Most of all I want to let you all know if you want something bad enough work your way to it. Yes it is not easy but it's well worth the wait and well worth the time and energy you put into it. Know that somewhere someplace they are looking for you, they just have to find you and you them.
Good luck in your journey and I hope you work hard for what you deserve..... Don't let anyone hold you back.

To busy for you I think not, I know lol it been to long,

   I have been working hard at my full time job on top of working on my side jobs as a Graphic Designer. With all of what I have accomplished in my life, the struggles, the successes, disappointments, the joys. I have been very blessed to experience all of theses experiences, it has taught me, helped me to grow up, and above all become a stronger powerful woman. I could not have done all of this by myself, I have God in my life and his blessings, and a very understanding and wonderful husband to help as well along the way.
    With out my husband I am sure I could of and would have accomplished all this eventually, however at my age of 38 years old I can fairly say that I have accomplished many more things in my life then most women my age have. On another note I would not have been able to accomplish any of these things without my faith in God. Believing in him has helped me by giving me faith in myself and the strength to do so. Yes I possibly could have done these things on my own without belief and with out a man. I know however myself, I needed to feel guided by something more in life then what is. I have grown up believing in God, I have grown up believing in something, a higher power if you will. That things happen for a reason and believing in God has taught me that he will provide, all you need to do is ask and have a faith in him, and Jesus.
    I am who I am today because of all the test and trails I have been giving, in turn I have also been given many blessings. My children, my family, my home, and above all myself. I have learned to love myself, I have learned there is nothing you can not do as long as you work hard for it, have faith not only in yourself by God, Jesus. 
    So I may not write everyday, as my busy life has made a turn that prevents me to do so at times. However always know that I am here, I am healthy and I am alive. Working harder everyday to make things happen for myself my family, and above all for those that need someone to lean on. I hope my blog helps people find something in life that will give them faith in themselves and God.
   
  

New Blog and very busy busy busy how about you?

    So yes I have been working  on another blog, yes I have many interests, and I love to search and seek out new things to do. I have been working at a new job that pays more, respects me more and gives me what I need to help myself and family to grow. I enjoy my new job thus far,  The people there are wonderful as well, though younger co-workers and sometime younger customers, I feel very comfortable, and respected as well.
    I believe that all things will come that you seek, need and want once one puts themselves out there to work hard enough for it, anything worth having is worth working hard for it. As well as having faith and asking for help from above when you need it. Just remember to thank God and Jesus for the help that you receive from them as they are behind you 100% of the way. All things in this world have a purpose you just have to realize that the purpose may not be revealed to you right away or at all. Just know that there is one.
   I have been down and out for a long while as if something was missing from my life. A lot of that came from not having a job and not knowing where to go to the next step. The guidance that I received was most welcomed. As it lead me to my new blog to which I am giving you a link to, or you can view it on my profile as well. I do hope most if not all my readers at least take a glance at it.
    In the mean time  I will continue to update this blog as much as do the other one. This make three blogs that I own and write for now. I am a creative person I have mentioned in my past post. With that being said my mind is full of information that I love to share so instead of bundling them up in just one blog I felt the need to spread it out amongst three blogs. People interest are  different and well may not like what one of my blogs may have to say but like what other blogs I write do. So
there is no need to worry I ll try not to mix them (laughing a little).
    Here is the link to my other blog if you should be interested in looking, reading, or even becoming a regular reader of it. Thank you to all my readers for helping  me and staying with me as long as you have, I only wish to keep you interested in what I have to say. Thank you once again.


http://heavens4us.blogspot.com/

My Conversation with a good friend!

My Friends and my conversation This was actually pretty funny, as I have dealt with a lot in my past and she doesn't know how I do the things I do and not get mad or upset about it,

So she asked me these questions, Q _Question A — my answer:

Q — Do you hate anyone?

A —"Honestly no I do not hate anyone,"

Q — Do dislike anyone?

A — "No I do not dislike anyone,"

Q — Not ever?

A — "No I did not say I never hated or disliked anyone, I just have learned that it takes to much energy to dislike or hate anyone at all, So I don't hate or dislike anyone"

Q — How can you not hate or dislike anyone at all?

A — "It is simple really, I have had people in my life that I once hated or disliked, I have come to learn that spending my energy there was doing me no good, these people would always be around, and in my life one way or another, For what ever their hatred or dislike is towards me I can not help or change, I just won't waste me time trying to change that anymore, nor waste my time with hating them back or disliking them... I simply have learned to tolerant them the best I can and go on with my life, There is so much more better things I can spend my time and energy on"

Q — How do you go about spending your time and energy in another place when you have someone that you would rather hate or dislike bothering you?

A — " Ah yes another simple question, One thing I have learned is to breathe through it, I don't react, and I certainly do not put to much thought behind their doings, In the end there is one person who will see all and take care of it for me, maybe not in this life, but in the thereafter surely Justice will be there, However in the mean time, I brush it off, and continue on with my work as a Graphic Artist and other Employment. I spend a lot of my energy on my blogs, Pod casts, and of course my employment else where, Also Friends help greatly. Today when and if something happens I don't really take that much notice I find myself not upset, Just thinking that doesn't surprise me."

Q — So you are telling me you never get upset over anything?

A — "No I do get upset about Life's unexpected moments, mostly dealing with my own demons, or frustrated over sorts, but with people I have just learned to tolerant them and move on, There is always going to be something that will be there every so often to upset you, But when it comes to people and what they do to themselves or to others, I don't let that upset me, I can not control what other people do I can only control what I do, therefore why bother worrying or stressing even getting upset at what others do, they are the ones that have to live with themselves, I just know I want a good clean conscience, on my shoulders, I don't want to play a never ending game of who's right who's wrong, who's better who's not, with anyone."

Q — I still do not know how you do it, Not get hateful about some people who are mean or hateful to you?

A — "I actually have one person to thank for that, She used to be my worsest enemy, or she would at least call me that still today, I am sure.... however I do not call her that anymore, as I have learned from her what not to do, I have learned patience, how to walk away from someone that can not nor wants to change, or want help to change, I have also learned that by what she has done to me and others everyone sees who really is the problem, and I have learned to grow up because sometimes, that is what needs to be done people have to want to change and want to be a better person, I did not like the person I was becoming when I dealt with her, so I decided that to be the better person I wanted to be, I would not let her bother me nor upset me as she is looking for just that, a way to upset me, through the years of this I have learned the best way to deal with that type of person is not to deal with them at all, ignoring those that bother you makes you feel better about yourself and what you do. People like that look for reaction to fuel their fire to give reason behind their own demons... I didn't want to be her excuse for the reasons why she is why or who she is or what she does. Thats all on her now, not me..... and everybody has seen it and knows it, I enjoy my life now more then ever and that is who I want to be."

This conversation went on, but stopped shortly there after as we went on to better conversations and better happier times, My friends know who I truly am, and by me not hating anyone or disliking anyone, but tolerating them has made my life much easier, knowing you can not control what other people do is a key element in learning how to deal with certain people and just knowing that if that is who they want to be in this life and waste energy in doing so.... so be it.. Life is just to wonderful to pass up by keeping yourself tied to anger, hate, and above all worrying about what others are doing... I handle it as it comes, and just keep hoping an praying for those who are going through a difficult time in their lives, that they either get help or come to their senses and try to be better.

Blogin It 4 U!: Ten Hottest Vampires! Stuart Townsend, Brad Pitt, ...

Blogin It 4 U!: Ten Hottest Vampires! Stuart Townsend, Brad Pitt, ...: Just as the title says here is my Top Ten Hottest Vampires, these are my favorites of all, Sorry Edward Cullin didn't make the Top 10 no roo...

Ten Hottest Vampires! Stuart Townsend, Brad Pitt, Antonio Banderas, Blade

Just as the title says here is my Top Ten Hottest Vampires, these are my favorites of all, Sorry Edward Cullin didn't make the Top 10 no room... lol However he is still in the TOP Twenty!and even Top fifteen!

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Let me know what you think of the Top Charts choices for this round. I will be making more Top Charts for different Categories, Come back to check them out! 

Movies with the daughter, Les Miserables

So youngest has wanted to see it, and to tell u the truth i am a sap for those types of movies. Sounds like Ann Hathaway will be great in this movie as she has always been great in her past movies.
I went and seen Sweeney Todd loved that movie. Johnny Depp a fine actor as he is made the movie. Had anyone else played his part it would not have been the same.
Ann Hathaway I believe will make this movie! I will find out in a few minutes, either way i ll have an update for you after the movie and when i get home.

Let It Snow Let it Snow,

   Yes we got some of that fine white snow here in SD; Wonderful beautiful when it fell, and swirl in the air as it did. I am glad I did go to the store before it hit hard, though I can say that it didn't hit us as hard as it did for the surrounding areas of SD and other states. Looking at the picture above the snow fell and I had to snap it, Yes all those specks is snow and it was heavy Christmas snow a little late for that reference I know. However none the less it reminded me of the days when I was a child waiting for it to fall and stick so we (kids) could go sledding. Yes I said it, sledding me all time favorite winter event.
   I am going on 38 years old and still go sled riding.  I love it, my youngest joins me often and it is quite the blast when she does. I am also content to sled down the mountain by myself as well. It has been a few years since we have lived so close to a hill of sorts to sled upon. But now that we have one right across the street there is absolutely no excuse not to do so. The hill may not look like nothing from the picture, however it is higher steeper and above all slippery once you pass the stairs above, after the second stairs we go tot he tree way farthest from the seconded staircase, then slid down. It is fast fun and bumpy at times but all in all a blast. Lots of adults and their children hit this hill so you have to get there fairly early.
   This picture was taking from my second story window, I can sit with my i pad or laptop, and stare out that window and it is absolutely beautiful when it snows. With the park lights, it is a wonderful sight to see. Many people do not take the time just to sit and watch what is happening outside their house windows, but when you have a spot like I do or even a better spot you can not help but notice, and take a breathe inward and sigh with the sight of nature and its forever giving blessings. I know I know there are time when nature gets nasty, In any event this is one of those times you can also respect her even more as dangerous as she can be, she also can give off great beauty.
   So the next time it snows, or rains, or even lighting's, take that moment to watch her in all her splendor. She is mighty, she is brave, and above all beautiful. It is only the after math of her beauty or destruction that we have to deal with sometimes as we are viewing her beauty she leaves destruction in her path, but this is her way of saying " I bring to life all things, as well as destroy life to. Never take me for granted."
  

Been awhile yes,

Work work and more, does it ever end, lots of us can say fairly that it never will. Add motherhood with that and it is a given fact that it never will end. Children growing, home life changing, people coming and going in our lives.... It is the never ending cycle of life! We all deal with it in our own way, why should it be hard to decide the choices we make good or bad they are our own. With that the suffering or pleaser we get from those choices are our own as well. Just food for thought for some reality for other.

MOVED still working fulltime, and well sick now!

    Ok so the biggest hurdle it over with wonderful, Moved into house, stress pretty much gone, now what comes.... yes of course your body says you put me through to much and now you have to recuperate, Yep I am sick, sinus and body aches as well as what might be the signs of the flu have hit me.
    Though I feel sick and what not I am actually able to get the rest that I so overly need. Stress effects everyone differently... me I get sick, really sick. However I do have to admit this time it isn't so bad. However maybe it is because I need this time to get a hold of all my bearing and come out ahead again. I have fought my way here, and now that the battle is over, it is time for me to strengthen my forces. At least that is what my body tells me lol. To stay in the game of life I take what comes and handle it then and only then. Someone told me a long time ago, (My Husband) Don't sweat the small shit, everything is small shit. It'll work out for the best. That is true enough.
     So now my body is having it's time of healing, and my mind is free and clear of things to do. It is on to everyday living and breathing..... anything that comes along is not worth my time in worrying about. I ll figure it out in the end with help from those around me and God. The barrier that I have put up, the walls that protect me, the fence that you can not come through shall hold another day... maauuuaahhhaaa lol just kidding. I do have the walls built the barrier up stress doesn't effect me as much as it once did, but it has it's toll on me eventually. I find myself in those times that I just have to sit reflect and remember past experiences of how it use to be then from somewhere deep inside I find my answers coming through. I believe that is called growing up. Instead of reacting I reflect, find answers and go on, brush it off most times.
      My job is doing well, a  little stressful yes, but all jobs have that, you have to it is how you know and stay in the game by the challenges that is brings to you.  A learning process if you may, I appreciate these challenges. It shows me my limits and helps me to spread my limits out further. I enjoy my job through and through.
       School it's going well to, have two more semesters to go through. I ll get there slowly but surly I will. I am going to getter done eventually. No need to be in a hurry there. Just going with the flow in that area. I will get that goal dealt with promise. 
       Well time to rest up, I still have clothes to fold, and put away, and do some more. Just taking my time as usual when it comes to cleaning. Have to not let the small crap bother you..... after all that is one thing that will wait for you ha ha ha!

Moved and Well, Busy with unpacking and working!

  Well, I had four days off to move from one place to another. I managed just as well though the **** went through the fan, I Had everything settled and ready to go for the 15th. However the people taking over my trailer through a fit, and well, wanted us out on the 14th. So I had to scramble through Thursday and Friday to make arrangements to change everything I had done already.  I was able to get the movers to come on Saturday instead of  Monday. I was able to pack and load everything into the garage by Saturday morn at 9 am, so the movers could get to it easily.
   I was able to get it all over to the new house by 11am that Saturday and we sat there till 3pm until old owners of our new house came to give us keys. I cleaned the old place up, We stayed there the night got a motel on Sunday night. Closed on Monday morning at 9 am.
   I heard along time ago, that everything will turn out ok in the end, so if its not ok right now well then it's not the end. That saying could not be more true then it was through this move. As is everything did turn out ok. Even though my break down did eventually happen, on Thursday I was still able to cope and carry on with what I needed to get stuff done. However it is a prime example of what women do theses days all by them self. I worked full time, I tended house and family full time, I handled looking, searching and finding a new home, the bank and realtor stuff. As well as packed organized and set up the move, all by myself. Now it is time to relax and unpack and get house in order after all the stress has finally passed.
   Problem is now that I am in my new house, I feel I am taking to easy with the unpacking. I think however my husband as wonderful as he is will help more with the unpacking and setting house up. I am glad for this as in time our house will be in the condition we would like it to be in, sooner then later.
    I have company coming this weekend can not wait it will be exactly what I need to get relaxed and gain my strength once again in order to continue on in my life. Life is hard no body promised it wouldn't but why does life have to be SOOOO hard. I guess it is as hard as you want to make it, and can be fairly easy if you allow it.

Life of a full time working family mom! I can do it so can you!

   Do I look tired well I should, Reason I haven't been able to write on my blog lately is because being a full time mom, full time Asst. Manager takes a lot out out of you. I also am in the process of moving, I did finally find a house, and it is in the process of the close.
   So much has happened since the last time I typed upon this page. That I most likely will forget more then half of what I wanted to tell you in the first place. I know I wanted to mention that anything worth having is worth fighting for and working extra hard to get. I have done that and continue to do just that.
   I do know that I have learned a lot while trying to find and buy a house, it is not as easy as selling a house, I have done that twice now  in my lifetime. I am done moving, Yes you heard me right this gypsy gal is done moving at least for many many years. I don't want to even think about moving this time but I will have to move twice I am sure in the small amount of a month. Move out of my current place, into a temp place until my house closes. Then when closed on house move into it, I am not expecting to move from current right into knew place timing may not be that well on my side. If we do great I am happy, but if not ok I ll deal with it then. One day at a time is all I can think of right now.
   My husband still on the road, will be coming off it soon enough as I have told him if I am working this full time career now, he can start looking for a career here locally, no need to be over the road anymore after we get settled into our new place. So by the beginning of next year I have high hopes he will be home for good (off the road). He is happy to hear I am sure, I know I am more happy to look forward to it.
   My kids are excited as well to move, gypsy love to move around a lot, and well they are a part of me. My husband not a gypsy (we call them gorgers) doesn't like to move that much but has for the sake of me. He loves me so there we go right! So anyway all in all I promised him that we would not move again for a long long time lol, when we got this house, I am an old fashion type gal, don't care much for the newer kind of homes sure their nice an all but give me an historical house and I ll take it before the newer one. My house was built in 1941, the last house we had and sold was built in 1888. So I am getting another house. LOVE IT!
   So here I am beat tired writing you a quick update on my life, I am not sure how many of my readers are interested in reading about me, but I am anyway a personal note if you will. I can not wait till we are moved in to our house and I can finally relax enough to put my whole heart into my house, kids, family and work..... sigh it is a long road to travel, but with GOD on my side in my life I know I can achieve what is meant to be. Good night my readers, and I enjoyed reading all your comments, Please keep commenting I love to read them all.

Thanks and GOD BLESS you all!

Liberated or Not liberated which would you rather it be!

    Women have been doing it for years, how do we do it,  well we just do as it is something women know they must do. For if we do not do it then who will, your children .... right! Your husband.... good one. All in all I am not saying that our children or our husbands don't do a lot, however what I am saying is women are the back bone. The joint that holds it all together and there fore do it all when it all needs to be done,
    Seriously if we handed our job(s) off to your husband and or children... what would they do, would they even know where to start seriously. I don't think so, we woman in our families are what brings it together and keeps it together. Yes our family members may help here and there but then again more times then some we are at it by ourselves. Expected, almost to do all that no one else will do. So why if we are so used to the multitasking of our lives do we get so exhausted.... You tell me.
    I have been working full time, been a mother full time, wife full time, and then throwing in this and that's when I can and then some. The work just keeps piling up but I keep adding it and just throwing what I can where I can in the time I have each day. Amazingly I still get up in the morning and do it all again with new stuff added to my already busy day with out missing a beat.
    Yet I find my self saying what crazy woman took off her bra and burned it, to make a statement for me, saying I wanted this in my life ha ha ha ! I know I didn't ask to be liberated I would be just fine staying home keeping house, with my children.... but since women have been liberated I find it that those women only caused our women of today more work and misery at times. I mean look at it , prices of EVERYTHING has gone up because now both parents can work, and add into the family... taxes, gas, food, etc: the list goes on and on... Those whining women had it good when it all started..... however they also found out that just because they got liberated and were able to do what ever the men did, they still had to come home and take care of the children and the house.... with little to no help from their families... Makes me wonder if they ever put a second thought of it after all was said and done.... ummm I guess we will never really know that answer.
    I am not saying I hate being liberated nor am I saying I hate my life because of it, I am just saying I never asked for it ! LOL! So women of today think about it, if you could go back in time, would you have stopped the event that changed it all for us women of today... or would you have let it happen without a hitch?