To busy for you I think not, I know lol it been to long,

   I have been working hard at my full time job on top of working on my side jobs as a Graphic Designer. With all of what I have accomplished in my life, the struggles, the successes, disappointments, the joys. I have been very blessed to experience all of theses experiences, it has taught me, helped me to grow up, and above all become a stronger powerful woman. I could not have done all of this by myself, I have God in my life and his blessings, and a very understanding and wonderful husband to help as well along the way.
    With out my husband I am sure I could of and would have accomplished all this eventually, however at my age of 38 years old I can fairly say that I have accomplished many more things in my life then most women my age have. On another note I would not have been able to accomplish any of these things without my faith in God. Believing in him has helped me by giving me faith in myself and the strength to do so. Yes I possibly could have done these things on my own without belief and with out a man. I know however myself, I needed to feel guided by something more in life then what is. I have grown up believing in God, I have grown up believing in something, a higher power if you will. That things happen for a reason and believing in God has taught me that he will provide, all you need to do is ask and have a faith in him, and Jesus.
    I am who I am today because of all the test and trails I have been giving, in turn I have also been given many blessings. My children, my family, my home, and above all myself. I have learned to love myself, I have learned there is nothing you can not do as long as you work hard for it, have faith not only in yourself by God, Jesus. 
    So I may not write everyday, as my busy life has made a turn that prevents me to do so at times. However always know that I am here, I am healthy and I am alive. Working harder everyday to make things happen for myself my family, and above all for those that need someone to lean on. I hope my blog helps people find something in life that will give them faith in themselves and God.
   
  

New Blog and very busy busy busy how about you?

    So yes I have been working  on another blog, yes I have many interests, and I love to search and seek out new things to do. I have been working at a new job that pays more, respects me more and gives me what I need to help myself and family to grow. I enjoy my new job thus far,  The people there are wonderful as well, though younger co-workers and sometime younger customers, I feel very comfortable, and respected as well.
    I believe that all things will come that you seek, need and want once one puts themselves out there to work hard enough for it, anything worth having is worth working hard for it. As well as having faith and asking for help from above when you need it. Just remember to thank God and Jesus for the help that you receive from them as they are behind you 100% of the way. All things in this world have a purpose you just have to realize that the purpose may not be revealed to you right away or at all. Just know that there is one.
   I have been down and out for a long while as if something was missing from my life. A lot of that came from not having a job and not knowing where to go to the next step. The guidance that I received was most welcomed. As it lead me to my new blog to which I am giving you a link to, or you can view it on my profile as well. I do hope most if not all my readers at least take a glance at it.
    In the mean time  I will continue to update this blog as much as do the other one. This make three blogs that I own and write for now. I am a creative person I have mentioned in my past post. With that being said my mind is full of information that I love to share so instead of bundling them up in just one blog I felt the need to spread it out amongst three blogs. People interest are  different and well may not like what one of my blogs may have to say but like what other blogs I write do. So
there is no need to worry I ll try not to mix them (laughing a little).
    Here is the link to my other blog if you should be interested in looking, reading, or even becoming a regular reader of it. Thank you to all my readers for helping  me and staying with me as long as you have, I only wish to keep you interested in what I have to say. Thank you once again.


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My Conversation with a good friend!

My Friends and my conversation This was actually pretty funny, as I have dealt with a lot in my past and she doesn't know how I do the things I do and not get mad or upset about it,

So she asked me these questions, Q _Question A — my answer:

Q — Do you hate anyone?

A —"Honestly no I do not hate anyone,"

Q — Do dislike anyone?

A — "No I do not dislike anyone,"

Q — Not ever?

A — "No I did not say I never hated or disliked anyone, I just have learned that it takes to much energy to dislike or hate anyone at all, So I don't hate or dislike anyone"

Q — How can you not hate or dislike anyone at all?

A — "It is simple really, I have had people in my life that I once hated or disliked, I have come to learn that spending my energy there was doing me no good, these people would always be around, and in my life one way or another, For what ever their hatred or dislike is towards me I can not help or change, I just won't waste me time trying to change that anymore, nor waste my time with hating them back or disliking them... I simply have learned to tolerant them the best I can and go on with my life, There is so much more better things I can spend my time and energy on"

Q — How do you go about spending your time and energy in another place when you have someone that you would rather hate or dislike bothering you?

A — " Ah yes another simple question, One thing I have learned is to breathe through it, I don't react, and I certainly do not put to much thought behind their doings, In the end there is one person who will see all and take care of it for me, maybe not in this life, but in the thereafter surely Justice will be there, However in the mean time, I brush it off, and continue on with my work as a Graphic Artist and other Employment. I spend a lot of my energy on my blogs, Pod casts, and of course my employment else where, Also Friends help greatly. Today when and if something happens I don't really take that much notice I find myself not upset, Just thinking that doesn't surprise me."

Q — So you are telling me you never get upset over anything?

A — "No I do get upset about Life's unexpected moments, mostly dealing with my own demons, or frustrated over sorts, but with people I have just learned to tolerant them and move on, There is always going to be something that will be there every so often to upset you, But when it comes to people and what they do to themselves or to others, I don't let that upset me, I can not control what other people do I can only control what I do, therefore why bother worrying or stressing even getting upset at what others do, they are the ones that have to live with themselves, I just know I want a good clean conscience, on my shoulders, I don't want to play a never ending game of who's right who's wrong, who's better who's not, with anyone."

Q — I still do not know how you do it, Not get hateful about some people who are mean or hateful to you?

A — "I actually have one person to thank for that, She used to be my worsest enemy, or she would at least call me that still today, I am sure.... however I do not call her that anymore, as I have learned from her what not to do, I have learned patience, how to walk away from someone that can not nor wants to change, or want help to change, I have also learned that by what she has done to me and others everyone sees who really is the problem, and I have learned to grow up because sometimes, that is what needs to be done people have to want to change and want to be a better person, I did not like the person I was becoming when I dealt with her, so I decided that to be the better person I wanted to be, I would not let her bother me nor upset me as she is looking for just that, a way to upset me, through the years of this I have learned the best way to deal with that type of person is not to deal with them at all, ignoring those that bother you makes you feel better about yourself and what you do. People like that look for reaction to fuel their fire to give reason behind their own demons... I didn't want to be her excuse for the reasons why she is why or who she is or what she does. Thats all on her now, not me..... and everybody has seen it and knows it, I enjoy my life now more then ever and that is who I want to be."

This conversation went on, but stopped shortly there after as we went on to better conversations and better happier times, My friends know who I truly am, and by me not hating anyone or disliking anyone, but tolerating them has made my life much easier, knowing you can not control what other people do is a key element in learning how to deal with certain people and just knowing that if that is who they want to be in this life and waste energy in doing so.... so be it.. Life is just to wonderful to pass up by keeping yourself tied to anger, hate, and above all worrying about what others are doing... I handle it as it comes, and just keep hoping an praying for those who are going through a difficult time in their lives, that they either get help or come to their senses and try to be better.

Blogin It 4 U!: Ten Hottest Vampires! Stuart Townsend, Brad Pitt, ...

Blogin It 4 U!: Ten Hottest Vampires! Stuart Townsend, Brad Pitt, ...: Just as the title says here is my Top Ten Hottest Vampires, these are my favorites of all, Sorry Edward Cullin didn't make the Top 10 no roo...

Ten Hottest Vampires! Stuart Townsend, Brad Pitt, Antonio Banderas, Blade

Just as the title says here is my Top Ten Hottest Vampires, these are my favorites of all, Sorry Edward Cullin didn't make the Top 10 no room... lol However he is still in the TOP Twenty!and even Top fifteen!

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Let me know what you think of the Top Charts choices for this round. I will be making more Top Charts for different Categories, Come back to check them out! 

Movies with the daughter, Les Miserables

So youngest has wanted to see it, and to tell u the truth i am a sap for those types of movies. Sounds like Ann Hathaway will be great in this movie as she has always been great in her past movies.
I went and seen Sweeney Todd loved that movie. Johnny Depp a fine actor as he is made the movie. Had anyone else played his part it would not have been the same.
Ann Hathaway I believe will make this movie! I will find out in a few minutes, either way i ll have an update for you after the movie and when i get home.

Let It Snow Let it Snow,

   Yes we got some of that fine white snow here in SD; Wonderful beautiful when it fell, and swirl in the air as it did. I am glad I did go to the store before it hit hard, though I can say that it didn't hit us as hard as it did for the surrounding areas of SD and other states. Looking at the picture above the snow fell and I had to snap it, Yes all those specks is snow and it was heavy Christmas snow a little late for that reference I know. However none the less it reminded me of the days when I was a child waiting for it to fall and stick so we (kids) could go sledding. Yes I said it, sledding me all time favorite winter event.
   I am going on 38 years old and still go sled riding.  I love it, my youngest joins me often and it is quite the blast when she does. I am also content to sled down the mountain by myself as well. It has been a few years since we have lived so close to a hill of sorts to sled upon. But now that we have one right across the street there is absolutely no excuse not to do so. The hill may not look like nothing from the picture, however it is higher steeper and above all slippery once you pass the stairs above, after the second stairs we go tot he tree way farthest from the seconded staircase, then slid down. It is fast fun and bumpy at times but all in all a blast. Lots of adults and their children hit this hill so you have to get there fairly early.
   This picture was taking from my second story window, I can sit with my i pad or laptop, and stare out that window and it is absolutely beautiful when it snows. With the park lights, it is a wonderful sight to see. Many people do not take the time just to sit and watch what is happening outside their house windows, but when you have a spot like I do or even a better spot you can not help but notice, and take a breathe inward and sigh with the sight of nature and its forever giving blessings. I know I know there are time when nature gets nasty, In any event this is one of those times you can also respect her even more as dangerous as she can be, she also can give off great beauty.
   So the next time it snows, or rains, or even lighting's, take that moment to watch her in all her splendor. She is mighty, she is brave, and above all beautiful. It is only the after math of her beauty or destruction that we have to deal with sometimes as we are viewing her beauty she leaves destruction in her path, but this is her way of saying " I bring to life all things, as well as destroy life to. Never take me for granted."
  

Been awhile yes,

Work work and more, does it ever end, lots of us can say fairly that it never will. Add motherhood with that and it is a given fact that it never will end. Children growing, home life changing, people coming and going in our lives.... It is the never ending cycle of life! We all deal with it in our own way, why should it be hard to decide the choices we make good or bad they are our own. With that the suffering or pleaser we get from those choices are our own as well. Just food for thought for some reality for other.