Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Life of a full time working family mom! I can do it so can you!


   Do I look tired well I should, Reason I haven't been able to write on my blog lately is because being a full time mom, full time Asst. Manager takes a lot out out of you. I also am in the process of moving, I did finally find a house, and it is in the process of the close.
   So much has happened since the last time I typed upon this page. That I most likely will forget more then half of what I wanted to tell you in the first place. I know I wanted to mention that anything worth having is worth fighting for and working extra hard to get. I have done that and continue to do just that.
   I do know that I have learned a lot while trying to find and buy a house, it is not as easy as selling a house, I have done that twice now  in my lifetime. I am done moving, Yes you heard me right this gypsy gal is done moving at least for many many years. I don't want to even think about moving this time but I will have to move twice I am sure in the small amount of a month. Move out of my current place, into a temp place until my house closes. Then when closed on house move into it, I am not expecting to move from current right into knew place timing may not be that well on my side. If we do great I am happy, but if not ok I ll deal with it then. One day at a time is all I can think of right now.
   My husband still on the road, will be coming off it soon enough as I have told him if I am working this full time career now, he can start looking for a career here locally, no need to be over the road anymore after we get settled into our new place. So by the beginning of next year I have high hopes he will be home for good (off the road). He is happy to hear I am sure, I know I am more happy to look forward to it.
   My kids are excited as well to move, gypsy love to move around a lot, and well they are a part of me. My husband not a gypsy (we call them gorgers) doesn't like to move that much but has for the sake of me. He loves me so there we go right! So anyway all in all I promised him that we would not move again for a long long time lol, when we got this house, I am an old fashion type gal, don't care much for the newer kind of homes sure their nice an all but give me an historical house and I ll take it before the newer one. My house was built in 1941, the last house we had and sold was built in 1888. So I am getting another house. LOVE IT!
   So here I am beat tired writing you a quick update on my life, I am not sure how many of my readers are interested in reading about me, but I am anyway a personal note if you will. I can not wait till we are moved in to our house and I can finally relax enough to put my whole heart into my house, kids, family and work..... sigh it is a long road to travel, but with GOD on my side in my life I know I can achieve what is meant to be. Good night my readers, and I enjoyed reading all your comments, Please keep commenting I love to read them all.

Thanks and GOD BLESS you all!


Sunday, September 2, 2012

Liberated or Not liberated which would you rather it be!






    Women have been doing it for years, how do we do it,  well we just do as it is something women know they must do. For if we do not do it then who will, your children .... right! Your husband.... good one. All in all I am not saying that our children or our husbands don't do a lot, however what I am saying is women are the back bone. The joint that holds it all together and there fore do it all when it all needs to be done,
    Seriously if we handed our job(s) off to your husband and or children... what would they do, would they even know where to start seriously. I don't think so, we woman in our families are what brings it together and keeps it together. Yes our family members may help here and there but then again more times then some we are at it by ourselves. Expected, almost to do all that no one else will do. So why if we are so used to the multitasking of our lives do we get so exhausted.... You tell me.
    I have been working full time, been a mother full time, wife full time, and then throwing in this and that's when I can and then some. The work just keeps piling up but I keep adding it and just throwing what I can where I can in the time I have each day. Amazingly I still get up in the morning and do it all again with new stuff added to my already busy day with out missing a beat.
    Yet I find my self saying what crazy woman took off her bra and burned it, to make a statement for me, saying I wanted this in my life ha ha ha ! I know I didn't ask to be liberated I would be just fine staying home keeping house, with my children.... but since women have been liberated I find it that those women only caused our women of today more work and misery at times. I mean look at it , prices of EVERYTHING has gone up because now both parents can work, and add into the family... taxes, gas, food, etc: the list goes on and on... Those whining women had it good when it all started..... however they also found out that just because they got liberated and were able to do what ever the men did, they still had to come home and take care of the children and the house.... with little to no help from their families... Makes me wonder if they ever put a second thought of it after all was said and done.... ummm I guess we will never really know that answer.
    I am not saying I hate being liberated nor am I saying I hate my life because of it, I am just saying I never asked for it ! LOL! So women of today think about it, if you could go back in time, would you have stopped the event that changed it all for us women of today... or would you have let it happen without a hitch?