RSV FLU whatever it is was, I am glad I am through it to!

   My nephew was sick a few weeks ago, I did not know at the time that he had RSV, I gave him his usual kiss good night when I left his house... the next day he goes into the hospital with RSV.

      I did not get sick right away, in fact it took a couple of days, I started to feel it, and knew I caught it. Not a nice thing to get btw, but it was my nephew what could I do.. I still love him.... I went to visit him as much as I could when he was in the hospital, I ll tell you I was not feeling very well at all. By that weekend I was in bed not getting out of it at all. My children and husband were very helpful and for  the most part quiet for me. They let me sleep, and get the rest I needed. Thank you family!
     Angel cake buttermilk biscuit got better and was released that Friday,he spent a week in the hospital. Once he was out I should of went in lol. But I did not. I laid in bed and refused to go near him as I did not want to give it to him back or give something worse to him. He grew stronger as I grew weaker, but he was healthy again and that is what mattered most.

      While I was still on the mend come Monday, I was taking my children to get their stuff done including but not limited to getting my youngest daughters hair done, she was so happy.... she paid for it herself, with the money she worked for from her Uncles business.

     So I was feeling much better, and felt I was good to go, thought to take a nice picture of both my daughters. So proud of them... they were being so good, and helpful love them so much. Here they are being good and funny and for once Sisterly!

     Then after a couple more days, I started feeling like I had a sinus infection, which I knew also comes with the Flu or RSV.. when your body is at the lowest something always come up after.... and well I caught a bacterial infection there after, it floored me as well. I took a few antibiotics that I had from the last one, but because they were old they helped but not as much as they could if they were fresher.. So off to acute care I went and saw the Doctor, they updated my meds, and sent me on my way...  Now 3 weeks later, after the Flu/RSV I had, and fighting this Infection now, I am on my way to fully mending.. Thank the heavens for the help they gave my nephew in getting better, and my youngest who caught some infection as well (she got better quicker and through it faster),and of course the help they provided me with,.
     Noticed hubby came down with something to, hope he will get better fast to without to much fuss I ask for the heavens to help him through it to. All in all those that are sick I pray you get better quickly, Those who are well I pray you stay that way, Those that have been sick I pray you remain sick free for the rest of the year. God Bless and remember be nice to one another, love not war, selfless not selfish... These are things that help the world become a little nicer and less hateful and stressful.

The Mothers Song — Jean Auel The Sheltor Of Stone

                         

The Mother's Song!
Out of the darkness, the chaos of time,  The whirlwind gave birth to the Mother sublime, She woke to Herself knowing life had great worth, The dark empty void grieved the Great Mother Earth.
From the dust of Her birth She created the other, A pale shining friend, a companion, a brother. They grew up together, learned to love and to care, And when She was ready, they decided to pair.   Around Her he'd hover. Her pale shining lover.
She was happy at first with Her one counterpart. Then the Mother grew restless, unsure in Her heart. She loved Her fair Friend, Her dear complement, But something was missing, Her love was unspent.
She was the Mother. She needed another.
She dared the great void, The chaos, the dark, To find the cold home of the life-giving spark. The whirlwind was fearsome, the darkness complete. Chaos was freezing, and reached out for Her heart.
The Mother was brave. The danger was grave.
She drew from cold chaos the creative source, Then conceiving within, she fled with life-force. She grew with the life that She carried inside. And gave of Herself with love and with pride.
The Mother was bearing. Her life She was sharing.
The dark empty void and the vast barren Earth, With anticipation, awaited the birth. Life drank from Her blood, it breather from Her bones. It split Her skin open and sundered Her stones.
The Mother was giving. Another was living.
Her gushing birth waters filled rivers and seas, And flooded the land, giving rise to the trees. From each precious drop new grass and leaves grew, And lush verdant plants made all the Earth new.
Her waters were flowing, New green was growing.
In violent labor spewing fire and strife, She struggled in pain to give birth to new life. Her dried clotted blood turned to red-ochred soil, But the radiant child made it all worth the toil.
The Mother's great joy. A bright shining boy.
Mountains rose up spouting flames from their crests, She nurtured Her son from Her mountainous breasts. He suckled so hard, the sparks flew high, The Mother's hot milk laid a path through the sky.
His life had begun. She nourished Her son.
He laughed and he played, and he grew big and bright. He lit up the darkness, the Mother's delight. She lavished Her love, he grew bright and strong, But soon he matured, not a child for long.
Her son was near grown, His mind was his own.
She took from the source for the life She'd begun. Now the cold empty void was enticing Her son. The Mother gave love,But the youth longed for more, For knowledge, excitement, to travel,explore.   Chaos was Her foe. But her son yearned to go.




This is just  a little sample of the mothers song that can be found in the book by Jean M. Auel. My all time favorite writer, there really has never been another to surpass her from my favorite, The book that this is from is called the Shelter of Stone, this is her 5th book in the series of 6. Many will know her work, and those many will appericate as I do her skill in bringing these characters to life as she did. I am grateful to be able to read all of them thus far. I can not wait to either read more, or watch the movies she has said she will create after she is completely done writing these books in her series....
To read more of the Mothers Song you can visit a local book store or go online and look up the books in this order. It is best to read from the beginning to the end to be able to fully understand the life of Ayla. Below are some links and the titles to each book by Jean M Auel. 1. The Clan of the Cave Bear 2. Valley of the horses             3. The Mammoth Hunters        4. The plains of Passage            5. The Shelter of Stone               6. The Land of Painted Caves     
Link to her website             http://www.jeanauel.com/         Fan site                http://ecfans.com/        Buy Her books here            http://www.amazon.com/Jean-M.-Auel/e/B000APVANG   

Angel Cake in the hospital, RSV you are so bad!

  Praying for my nephew to get better, was admitted to the hospital yesterday for the RSV bug. I hate it when the children are sick at anytime, however when it is something like this I hate it even more. Hoping now that he is in the hospital he will heal more quickly and get better. I already miss him, and I have seen him tonight but that does not do my worry any good.
   As his Auntie, I feel that I am close to him as he needs those around him to lift his spirits up. As he is in the hospital most of his living life so far. The months out of the hospital have been great but he does get sick more often then most kids. I only hope this changes as he gets older, If you have ever read my earlier postings about my nephew here on my blog you would know why and what I am talking about.
   My nephew wasn't even suppose to live past 3 weeks to a year, with his left front part of his brain dead, and thought to be blind and not able to hear or walk, and talk. With a shunt in his head to release the water in his brain, he has proved all of them wrong thus far.. I only truly hope he is strong as he seems to be.... but how much more can a little 2 year old take. He only knows pain most the time so to him it is normal. The days with out pain he welcomes and his happy none the less. Never know when he is hurting as he is just a great kid that doesn't know how to let you know. He has mastered more with pain in his two years of life then most in their entire life span. What a little brave man we have in our lives and we thank God for him every day,,,, at least I do. He can hear, speak, see, and think and is so very smart, no one knows there is anything wrong with him unless we tell them ourselves.... God has made a miracle through him, thus faith will always be known in my heart mind and soul that God does exist.

Hubby home for the weekend dinner with my brothers family!

   All kinds of things are happening how wonderful is that. Spent a wonderful weekend with the husbands and kids, movies and games, dinner to. Could not ask for more, all healthy and doing well. So been real busy this whole week kind of feel like I need a long break and a me time kind of day! Got to take puppy's in tomorrow for their shots and hope that they do well.
   Other then that nothing much to tell that is why I haven't written anything much lately. Still trying to transfer files from my old PC to my new I MAC, takes time considering the husband or kids are on the PC at most times, hoping to be able to transfer tomorrow as well with a day off just for me. Can not sleep the day away like I usually like to do HA! but never the less it will be busy tomorrow just like always it is. Guess once the kids get older it gets easier however you become taxi driver more an more.
   Taxi Driving isn't so bad when it is for your children, but it gets old quickly, I would rather take them myself anyway. There will be plenty of me time when they have moved out and on with their own lives. Then they will be calling me to taxi the grand-kids around ha ha ha ! Got to love them all kids, grand-kids, nephews and nieces, they are gifts not to be taken for granted.God blessed them all!

Husbands b day yesterday, New iMac for me today!

   So I am happy to tell you hubbies b day went off with a blast he got my computer, new game, went out to eat, and will be getting a new graphics card for the computer he got. It is basically new only a couple years old.
    Today I got my new mica, it was the deal we made long ago if I get my mac he gets my computer I couldn't resist the deal so I got my mac today he got my computer a couple of days ago. It all went well for both of us. He is a great husband and I would not trade  him for the world. Just awesome at everything and more.

Is he right for you, how can you tell if he is the one? Here is a few tips to find out.

   Frist and for most when you invite him over does he want to spend it watching a movie, wants to talk, or just hang out with you... or rather still does he want to play x-box......? Well, the answer is simple, if he is playing xbox, or even computer games, etc: you are looking at your new future, a forever case of playing xbox, is his way of thinking is that if I am home, or around you I am spending time with you.... therefore no reason to complain... Is this the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with?
   If he comes over and does different things with you, like watch a movie one night, play board/card games the next time, hangs out with you another time, then xbox on another night then you can fairly say he likes the games, but he also makes a point in trying to spend equal time with me. Is this the type a guy you want to be with for the rest of your life?
   If he takes you out on dates and spends time with you  at home or out, then you have a pretty decent guy,even if he plays video games on whatever system. Is this the type a guy you want to spend the rest of your life with?
    I figure my man is the last option here, and I am willing to spend my life with him. Marriage doesn't mean you have to spend every momenet together doing something together. The relationship will quickly go down hill fairly quickly. However my man works a lot and deserves hours of play which is fine with me, he also makes sure that he spends time with family and spends time doing other things. He does not always play games but it is a big part of his life, but I am a bigger part of that and he makes sure I know that.  This is the type of guy I want to spend the rest of my life with.
     SO WHICH GUY DO YOU HAVE OR WHICH GUY DO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH?